mardi 13 mai 2014

A Sure Way To Break A Spell

By Arline Bradley


It is normally quite hard to free yourself if you have been caught up in a maze where you cannot find your way out. To some extremes you might be unaware of what is happening to you. The causing agent might be uncontrollable to you. For you to break a spell, cautiousness is necessary. You must possess some wisdom in a circumstance of that sort.

The most common type of spell is that of relationships. When you fall in love with someone, you feel like they are the most entire beings in the planet such that you cannot do without them. In most cases, you become so vulnerable to them that they can mistreat you as much as they want. When the second party realizes that individuals are helpless before them, they can use this as a scapegoat to play with your feelings and emotions.

Being in a position to dominate the thoughts and actions of someone is an overwhelming experience. Some people can do everything to gain this control. This is normally not realized by the misused party, making them more helpless and vulnerable. People who try to bring the back to reality are labeled haters. It is normally too late when they realize that they were actually duped.

A great scholar called Socrates used to tell the Athenian youths that you should know thyself. This is very important if at all you would like to strengthen your weaker areas and reinforce your strongholds. Accept your weak areas in order for a chance to strengthen them to be sought. Never tarry until its too late to make a change. Consider views from friends and foes alike. Instead of rubbishing them, put them in a weighing.

When someone tolerates a feeling of self worth, they rubbish others and mistreat them. Those who could have saved them thus shy off and only look at a distance. Some of the people we take for granted can become our pillars of redemption from the shackles of a spell. They might know the way out and all we need to do is stretch our hands to them and seek for guidance. This cannot happen if we disregard them.

Having big ears and a small mouth is thus a prerequisite for breaking a spell. At some point the situation might be quite offending or humiliating but swallow your pride. It is said that pride comes before a fall. The wisest man on earth is that who recognizes the reality that we cannot have things happening our way all the time. Sometimes we need to take what others propose into consideration and act upon them.

Sometimes our decisions can have some dire consequences. This does not mean that we compromise and give in to foolish demands. Total freedom comes when one cannot suffer manipulation from any possible source. Even your spouse should not be trusted when it comes to some matters. In a crucial situation painful decisions have to be made. Trust needs to be earned and not only demanded.

No one is wise enough to escape a spell. Be vigilant and alert at all times. Evaluate all the circumstances in which you take part to assure yourself that none is manipulative. Anything that you find yourself doing with the full awareness that it is wrong needs deeper scrutiny.




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